To finish off my blog, I would like to say this whole process of choosing a person to study and talk to, asking them questions, and comparing my experiences to Strangers in Their Own Land has taught me so many incredible things. It not only has altered my way of thinking, but also the way I see others as well. The biggest thing I have learned from this experience is not to judge others based on their opinions. Before conducting this field study, I had the mindset that anyone who thinks gay marriage, global warming, sexism, and other politcal topics such as those, were not a big deal, were cold hearted, misogonistic, A-holes. But now I have a completely different outlook on the whole topic. I have learned that yes, people can form ideas for themselves, but also growing up being taught completely different things than this new era also has a huge impact on one’s political views and opinions. For example, my interviewee was taught that homosexuality is a sin, immigrants should not come to America, and woman should be homewives, but as she grew and had experiences of her own, her opinions on some of these matters changed. Now, she believes that women are powerful and can do anything they want, but still believes homosexuality is a sin. This, of course, is also partly because she is a Catholic, but also was taught different views than others of this generation. For these reasons, I would say that my empathy walls have 1000% changed towards others with different opinions than I.
While conducting this field study, I did have thoughts of questioning my own values and beliefs. I love and trust my interviewee so of course I took what she was saying into consideration, but at the end of the day, I believe we choose our own fate. We have the privilege of forming our own opinions on political matters. One example I can think of is when my interviewee stated that she believes Mexicans are taking over our jobs in the United States. I have a different opinion than her on this matter, but after she stated some facts about how many illegal immigrants are getting jobs while other Americans are struggling to find jobs, I found myself questioning whether or not she was right. I thought long and hard about this issue and finally came to the conclusion that there is no right or wrong opinion, there is just an opinion. And in my opinion, immigrants are a HUGE economic thrust and help America and it’s society be better, so the statement “ immigrants are bad for America and its people’ just simply does not resonate with me. If I were to pass on one message from this field study, it would be to learn about someone and their experiences before coming to a conclusion about that same person.
